Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Husband Breastfeed Her Wife My Husbands Mates Wife Tried To Breastfeed My Baby..?

My husbands mates wife tried to breastfeed my baby..? - husband breastfeed her wife

I'm angry and I do not know what to do ... I feel that my child was injured, the breasts alone should at least a number of years are mine!
We were at a barbecue at his house (they live just around the corner) and men went to fetch the meat. I fed my son (he is a bottle of 3 months, 6 months), and he slept, and not sleep without her doll, so I said, I would have him back home to get it. Do not just saying stupid to leave him here, just a minute. I thought it might be, it is a very good friend and has 4 children, 12 months old and breastfeeding.
I ran home, but managed to talk to my neighbor for about 10 minutes. I said I had to do, but she loves to talk! So when I return to my baby my sis in law was there and it was like to come with me ... So we went home and told me that they called because my baby was crying hysterically and batteries, and thought he was hungry (despite its efforts to feedhalf an hour earlier), so she tried to console him by his heart in his mouth.
What should I do? I feel bad about leaving me and never let back out of sight. Sorry, think for him to pass on what would have been foolish, the lady pushed her breast into his mouth.
Does everyone agree that it is completely wrong?

15 comments:

A Y said...

Ohh. Lord. Oh my ... yes ... It is absolutely disgusting. I would be furious, too! Although I must say that emotion, with the nausea that I now feel! How totally inappropriate crossing of the line is an understatement. Do not feel bad to go. It's that simple innocent action on your part does not justify what he did. It is so completely wrong. I do not think I can again asociate with her, if she me. And I have to cope somehow and tell him how he violated their trust. I'm am sorry it happened to you. Nasty.

cka61508 (Adelyn's Mommy) said...

Omg I hit in the face! Why do people not think this is very strange and disturbing. It is not common sense to do. It is a very special thing that stands between mother and child. And the sisters? This was the day ... It is not usual or normal now. At least not where I am! I would be very annoying!

Liam's Mommy said...

breast-feeding their children, usually when the baby is breastfeeding him to change his only consolation was that they only try to reassure him that was on his way. It may seem strange, but I had the best intentions. I might just say, for future reference, please do not repeat the chest

suppasta... said...

It is completely crossed ... Pole vault over the line. I have said that they felt uncomfortable with her decision.diplomatically. Leaving her child with her is not her sister.

As for his son will be fine. Breastfeeding is natural ... In general, the mother, but still.

JC_1437 said...

Yes! What's wrong with him! Is facing you, I will stay to talk to her completely. I let my crazy life. Poor baby, thank God you do not remember them at this age. I need something from her. She should have sought ways to reassure the rest.

Josephin... said...

She would have made for the first time. But not as taboo as you have to be out. Your baby will not and could not hurt. Every other mammal would.

Mrs. Z plus 3 said...

Pay at least a nurse, no woman has the right to your boob in the mouth of a child who belongs not get stuck!

You're lucky that your not physically attack.

♥♥♥ said...

I speak not know of anyone else - but I think it is totally wrong! She did not ask, no longer as you are so close and I'm sure it was a bottle to be somewhere in an old house with 12 months for there to be sound.

CT said...

Yes, I would be offended. I am a little bit about the woman who is not confused, but I just want to say whose fault it is not fair to you.

Squiggle... said...

The total and absolute breach of ethics.

greensle... said...

Maybe they could have good intentions, but certainly over the finish line. The next time it is proposed to help your child, the brain, say NO firmly.

Cheers!

jtaj987 said...

what beyond the mind, and it was disgusting!

MeggiesM... said...

OMG! Yes, it's about evil. What the hell would think this is correct? I was angry, and I have to what is absolutely clear that what he did was wrong compared. Can I talk to your husband and make sure it remains a bit of it. The sacred bond between mother and child was infected by his attempt to "care" for your child.

She trusted him and learned the hard way that some people are simply not worth trusthing. I'm sorry that this happened to you. Nothing that any of us say that you feel better, but just know that your child was not permanently damaged by this.

Sean said...

I would be a bit odd to me that's what happened. But look at objectively. The baby is too young to remember what never happened, are very concerned that we never. They tried to help, even if it's a little scary. Yes, it's a bit presumptuous, but no damage was done differently, in principle, and it is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things.

128333 said...

Yes, it's scary. She was probably angry because the child was crying so hard, and she did not know what to do. Soak it, they may have felt it was only natural to do so in order to try to help. Back in the old days not all the time. Needless to say, that Arent at this time and is now politically incorrect for the type of motherhood. should have a conversation with her and said he felt very uncomfortable that we do something good and I wish you please respect their wishes and not do. Do not stop to take care of her baby. simple as that.

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